An engaging gift

 If you have a friend that recently got engaged, do that girl a favor and buy/make her 

a "Thankfulness journal."

Here are two that I made for friends. 

On the inside cover write something like this:

My dear friend,
In this journal you can write down everything that you are thankful for about _{fiance's name}_, everything you admire & respect about your soon to be husband. When you are frustrated or upset, glance through this as a reminder of all the reasons why you chose _{fiance's name}_.

It's a great way to cultivate a heart of thankfulness & gratitude rather than one of  criticism/discontentment/brattiness.

I use mine often. I have much to be thankful for. 

-SJW